Hey guys , have you ever come across situations when you have to choose between you and you ? Well, its pretty obvious you would have but the question is a bit confusing !! Anyways , let me try to explain to you. In life, we come across situations when we have to make choices between no two person or things but we have to choose between our own prevailing thoughts. Lets say we often hear to choose between what your mind is saying and what your heart says or say you make two opinions about something but it becomes hard to choose one of them . Let’s take a most common example , Whenever you have two commit some blunders , just for fun , you always think “Shall I do it or not?”
Different thoughts for the same thing but you are awestruck what to choose what to not!! Ah, really a hard one but here I am going to explain something which may turn fruitful and help up in tackling such situations.
So let me bring you up in a keen situation . You sitting on your chair or lying down on your bed deeply thinking what to choose what to not, quite worried thinking about the results , thinking why can’t I choose all of them ,wondering.
Now , follow these steps and see if they really work.
Stop asking others “What shall I do? ” Ya, you may share with your good friends but not more than 1 or 2. The thing is that different opinions will come in your mind and make your choice even harder. So, limit your sharing power.
Don’t let anything go in the future . Sit down, lay down whenever you feel fresh and free and try to find a path then and there only. Just think of the most righteous decision . Make a flowchart of the situations in your mind or pen it down whatever you wish will be good for you. I will suggest you to write down every thought strucking your mind and then read that again 3-4 days.
Give a pause on those points which your mind says are nice one and delete all the other stuff. Now, ponder on those points again and again and eliminate those points which you feel are not giving so much positive vibes.
Think of your right and wrong and distance yourself from anything else as this one is the last step . Don’t lose patience as you have already deleted many of the points which you feel are wrong for you so stop bothering and try to find out optimism in everything. You have heard “Beautiful things happen in life when you distance yourself from negativity.” So, distancing yourself from all the negative stuff a positive mind will choose between the remaining points.
So, finally when you have made the choice, stay firm on it . Take the decision with the thought you will not be able to alter it in future . Think of the decision you took twice and if you see happiness in yourself after taking the final decision then it may be the right choice for you.